When is it time to let go?


In my practice I frequently deal with animals suffering incurable diseases such as cancer and neurological degeneration. Complementary therapies are excellent modalities to treat these diseases. Not only can we control the physical symptoms but also the mental anxiety that often accompanies terminal illness. Even though those little guys have incurable diseases, they have a good quality of life.

However, there comes a moment when there is no response to the treatment and it becomes clear that death is approaching. We always wish that they die in their sleep. But that is the exception. An animal may be in agony for two or three days. Homeopathic remedies can be used to control anxiety and ease the agony. However, waiting for somebody to die is something that few can handle. In many cases, pain is involved and it may become difficult to fully control it with medication. Therefore, euthanasia may be the most compassionate action to take. However, how are we to know that we have reached that point?

Animals cannot express their choice in an unequivocal manner. It is left to us to interpret their desires. I feel that given the choice, even in pain or afflicted with a terminal disease, animals want to live. The instinct of preservation is the dominant factor. Therefore, we should give them palliative treatment while the preservation forces are strong. It all becomes a play between the vital force that seeks to preserve the integrity of the organism, and the destructive action of the disease that interferes with the integrative action of the vital force. Homeopathic treatment strengthens the vital force so, while it may not provide a cure, it allows the animal to live with the disease.

Normally old and chronically ill animals may spend a great deal of time sleeping and staying by themselves, being in their own world, just looking about. However, they can be aroused to do something fun and exciting. They have bursts of energy to play, eat, greet you or go for a walk. The energy they have may be just enough to wag their tail and smile at seeing you. The deep primordial desire to live and to enjoy life can be seen in the eyes. It appears as a shine on the eye surface as the cornea reflects the light, in fast eye movements that follow objects.

When the eyes appear dull, with no shine, the spirit is diminished and the animal has lost the desire to live; when you look into them it seems as if there is “nobody in there”; this may be the time for you to follow your animal’s wishes and help him die soon. He would like you to be with him in the last moment.

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